Sharing a Moment With Anyone:

By Dean Miller


The basic research of human discussion is a complicated art. It seems basic but there are many barriers that get in the way. There are barriers within us, as there are boundaries within the other individual. Some barriers are situational, whilst other boundaries we struggle with all our life. But gaining a rapport, creating a moment of friendly intimacy, is not that difficult. If we are able to attain one moment of real connection with one more person, we are in a position to achieve numerous of these. It all is dependent on how susceptible we are in their reputation, and how susceptible they allow on their own to be in ours.

It is a large misnomer that we are vulnerable if we show susceptability. No, if we are purposely vulnerable we show excellent strength. And we are not susceptible just for the sake of it, we are vulnerable to invite others' weeknesses - we trust them with our vulnerability so they might trust us with theirs. This is the just way an intimate relationship may be formed. And let's just get this right; Jesus desired that we would be willing and available for others, appreciating that we often want others prepared and available for us.

The issue of weeknesses is an important one. We cannot anticipate somebody else to be vulnerable - to be available to be in effective relationship - unless we model the conduct. When we do to others what we wish them to do to us, it begins from us. And we have to realize that being susceptible won't be repaid in kind all the time or even most of the moment. But we need to be ready to show the durability of character in the will to relate. We cannot turn such a thing on and off. It wants to be part of our basic operation in all our interactions - besides where it would be freely abused.

A second, in this speak, is a second that is transformed by the strength of God; where a temporary bond between two people is achieved through common trust and respect. Upon such a second we note the Presence of God. Attaining a moment such as this goes beyond all cultural norms and enters the realm of Divinity. We go from a state of many sociable fears into a state of relaxed for the holiness in such a second. God is there in our midst, inside of and between both the protagonists. Only one of these moments is needed and the rapport between these two individuals is solidified.

The highest of human experience is the understanding of God in romantic relationship with another person. When we not only realize God, alone, but now in the business of another, our satisfaction of God is doubled. The power of the altered life is the ability to with confidence and vulnerably share a moment with an additional person. When we can be open up and honest we are safe to be with. Individuals love to interact with people who are secure to be with. Be secure to be with.




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